Stereotypes

Not because I´m gay it means that I act like a woman.

Not because I´m a woman it means that I act like a gay.  Oh wait!! 
 
Not because I´m losing it means I´m lost

Just because I´m a politician it doesn´t means that you can´t trust me

Not because I have piercings it means I prefer drugs before books

Not because I failed the first term it means that I´ll fail in June

Just because a I use glasses it means that I´m a nerd/intelligent/cultivated person

Not because it´s sunny it´s a happier day

Not because I´m a woman I´ve more stereorypes to fight.

Not because I´m a man it means that I can´t share my problems and weaknesses

Not because I eat a little bit of chocolate it means that I´m giving up my diet

Phoetry

Don´t stop being attentive

and raise your eyes from the floor

because once you have already grown

and all the rules of this game are known

you stop being willing to humbly take

any dvergent way.

You don´t discover with those hungry eyes

the lessons of every day.

So stay awake and change your mind

because the only secret to be wise

is never stop learning like a child

Love

"Love doesn´t exist. We spend our lives running after it but we´ll never find it".

I don´t think so. We are used to thinking that love is what we´ve always seen in Hollywood films.
Everybody would like to have that kind of love, but we have to realise that in the real life it´s much more difficult.
The first and most important step is finding the other person. It should happen spontaneusly, we can´t dedicate our lifes to look for someone. From my point of view, it´s better to learn to build and love yourself when you´re alone. Otherwise, you´ll choose hastily and you´ll have a pathetic dependence in your partner that will destroy you when he or she breaks up.
To put it in a nutsell, you have to be seasoned, rational and be able to live happily when you´re alone if you want a good love experience.

The other main difference between  Hollywood and reality love is connivance.
In the films we usually watch an euphoric and idealized one which doesn´t correspond to real life coupleIn conclusion, I think that we can believe in love only if we don´t confuse it with what movies show us. s coexistence.

A thank you letter.

Part One:
Leslie Had to struggle for life since she was born. She was the sixth of seven siblings.
Her mother´s favorite daugthers were the prettiest ones and  Leslie wasn´t one of them so she was treated in a worse way or even mistreated.
She told me once that when she was a child, she used to hide behind the corridor door and cry for hours.
She were already young when she emancipated: she needed to scape from that house so she married the wrong man
Arturo wasn´t a good husbad so that he ignored Leslie´s problems and left her alone when she suffered her first cancer.

That part of her life made her such a sensitive person.
She studied a lot and learnt to play many musical instruments. She was the most cultivated person I´ve ever known and she taugh me lots of things.

My biological mother is a feckless person so Leslie have always been the good example that inspires me. We had a very close friendship

As a consequence of a backward medication, she had another two cancers, but she fought until the last day.

I´m sure that anyone would prefer the death before a life like that, and that´s why I found Leslie an extraordinary person: I´ve never seen her without a smile in her face trying  to share it with us instead of sadness.


Part 2, the letter:

Dear Leslie, as you know, I´m not a believer, but there is a reason why I wish the existence of a second life. It´s you. I miss you. I miss your jokes, our games... and I would like to be able to thank you again for letting me grow up in a better way.
You changed me a lot.
You´re the first close person I´ve ever lost and I can´t stand the hankering.
Someone like you deserves to remain forever instead of suffer and die too young.
When I study phylosofers attempts to demonstrate or prove the existence of god, I think that my only argument is that a divine justice wouldn´t let you suffer as you did.

Thank you for sharing your last years with me.